Monday 13 July 2015

Angry Feminist Slam Poem

B. O. Y.

If Beyonce was a boy, she thinks she would understand,
If Beyonce was a boy, she swears she'd be a better man.
And I wonder if Beyonce, a woman of flesh and blood like me
Craves the power and the freedom that drips in molten privilege off the word "boy".
Three small letters, so far from my reach,
Yet one in two of the two people walking down the street
Carries it.
It's slung over his shoulder, all casual,
And it weaves its magic, all casual,
Over casual
...winks and comments.
While the second of the two people walking down the street yearns for a taste it alludes her.
For him and only him, it casts a protective shield that covers any darkened alley,
With its B and its O and its Y.
Boy would I like some of that!
But no, my G. I. R. L. has its own agenda,
My words and actions carry actual consequences
Because did you know G. I. R. L. is actually an acronym for
BITCH STOP YELLING SO MUCH YOU'RE OVERREACTING!
...Whatever.
And instead of a protective shield,
My letters are a magnet.
For fear, for well-lit streets and for yes. Every man.
My letters draw the boundaries of my existence,
A triangular fence with a guard at each point: B. O. Y.
"Mum can I catch a train from Wynyard at 7pm by myself?"
"Absolutely not."
"Mum can I catch a train from Blacktown at midnight with a boy?"
"Yes of course honey,"
If I was a boy, I would jump, fly, leap, twist and spin in my freedom,
Roll and writhe in my silken sheets of opportunity,
If I was a boy, I wouldn't have to explain my three units of maths,
If I was a boy, I wouldn't have to explain my "unladylike" arms,
If I was a boy, I wouldn't have to explain myself,
I wouldn't have to justify my actions as a person,
If I was a boy, I would walk down a street without calculating who would be there to hear me scream.
...
I would miss makeup,
The wings, the highlights, the contours,
But if I was a boy, I wouldn't need it, because I'd wear my confidence in my B and my O and my Y!

By Hannah Blount

3 comments:

  1. Implying being cared for is a bad thing. If only I was a girl, then maybe I'd have people care about me at all.
    If I was a girl I wouldn't need to worry about getting attacked because my male mates would take the blow for me.
    If I was a girl I wouldn't have to explain that I like to sew.
    If I was a girl I wouldn't have to explain why a stand like that.
    Why I sit like that, why want compassion.
    If I was a girl I wouldn't have to explain myself. (nevermind this one is bullshit, everyone has to explain their actions don't lie saying boys get to make mistakes without punishment. Law exists.)
    Double standards are a crime! Hypocrisy is The Devil!
    Please stop being so self centered and realize yes men are actually humans and have problems too.
    Have a top of the m'rning.
    Cowfee.

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  2. the fact that you feel you would be shamed for liking to sew (hi 5! love sewing :) ) or standing "femininely", or wanting compassion are indicators of the exact same gender roles that limit women as explained in the original poem.
    I get the feeling you dont understand gender roles much?
    Heres a resource to help you out :) https://www.boundless.com/psychology/textbooks/boundless-psychology-textbook/gender-and-sexuality-15/gender-414/gender-and-sociology-296-12831/

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    1. This was purely for satire. Gender roles are attached to sexual dimorphism. The problem is not that it limits people, it doesn't, I still do what I do, people barely care that I do it, even the most 'manly men' I know.
      The thing is, nobody is forcing a gender role. No one. Sewing is a choice I make not decided by my gender. I can choose to be a 'house husband' if I want, no law, no institution is stopping me. I can choose to go to the gym if I want. This is not my male privilege, this is the privilege of having willpower to go against opinion as no law supports gender roles. You can't keep justifying the lack of willpower to act outside your comfort zones as something someone forces on you. Its the same as a me blaming my teacher if I didn't work hard and get a good score.
      I keep seeing women justifying gender roles for not having women in STEM but in reality isn't it really that there aren't that many women who really want to get into STEM?

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